Online Couples Counseling

The love we want would be a mix of wonderful acceptance, deeply rewarding collaboration and intimate sharing.

Are you and your partner seeking guidance and support for your relationship, but finding it challenging to schedule appointments outside the home? With the rise of technology, at home couples therapy, at home marriage counseling, and at home relationship therapy are becoming increasingly more accessible due to online couples counseling over Zoom - a secure platform that keeps relationship counseling online private.

Trying to find the best online couples therapy online can be challenging as everyone is offering some kind of coaching. If you want to be serious about getting the best couples therapy online, you'll want to find a couple counselor with experience and repeatable results with couples.

Zoom provides a way for couples to connect with their Virtual Relationship Counselor Online and from the comfort of their own home. It's just like talking in-person and you can access the best marriage counselors without needing to leave your living room.

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Anthony Santen

With over 25+ years of experience, I have developed a break-through, results-oriented, deliberate approach to couples counseling. This approach to couples counseling is specifically designed to return couples to effective collaboration, intimate togetherness, and deeply accepting, trusting love. My approach focuses on the shortest route to the most profound and most rewarding connection between two people.

Couples have told me they have no time for endless sessions that look for fault and rehash the blame, and for them, the best couples counseling is short and effective and online. Nowadays, couples seek relationship counseling that clarifies and prioritizes the core issues. Couples want a focused approach that directly and deliberately transforms the core issues in the relationship without interfering with the personalities and expressions of the individuals. 

With my approach, we spend little time assigning blame, going through individual childhood issues, mother/father issues, etc. Instead, we deliberately look at becoming more skilled and knowledgeable about our future relationship and creating a more effective relationship moving forward, aiming to create a profoundly intimate, safe, emotional connection filled with love and blissful surrender.

Troubled partners seem to be in conflict in a desperate attempt to cause (leverage/coerce) their partners to provide them with what they need from the marriage. They want to love and be loved in return, but something isn't working, and they cannot understand how to get what they need. 

Are you ready to accept expert assistance? 

Are you willing to contribute to the success of your marriage, even if this means changing some aspect of your approach, if necessary?

The original (old) approach to couples counseling has been aimed at creating compromise; an arrangement. While this may seem practical in its time, this approach has roots in the 1950s (Virginia Satir) and is currently primarily irrelevant and outdated.   

So much has changed since then - not just two-income families, the birth control pill, feminism, etc. Cell phone communication, parenting approaches, life span, the internet, etc., all influence how we approach marriage. Romantic examples originating from the '50s, '60s and '70s are no longer applicable (and sometimes even considered entirely inappropriate).

There is a better way. The secret is in the approach; the way we look at the relationship. And this new approach works! It helps couples create the intimately loving marriage they want, including saving a marriage after an affair. see things we were not able to see on our own... and with only few sessions changed drastically the direction our relationship was headed.
Thank you. You are the best thing that ever happened to us.

Tilila I.

Loving Couples

The rewards of a loving relationship are too numerous to mention. But, immune system and longevity aside, we want peace. The feeling that we can genuinely feel accepted for who we are - in a peaceful home filled with nurture, joy, a sense of belonging, support and acceptance; a space where we can discover ourselves while being loved "just the way we are."

Let's do relationship better.
Let's create a healthier, collaborative and fulfilling relationship.
And let's start today.

"Everything else seems secondary when your relationship isn't working"

Laura (&Brian) H.

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Couples counseling is meant to be the process that transforms relationships into spiritually fulfilling, blissful partnerships for both partners. Unfortunately, couples look for couples counseling once they're struggling; after the relationship is in trouble when they realize that their efforts seemed to no avail.

While deep down you want to get back to the relationship you envisioned for yourself, resentment, intolerance, and anger have taken their toll on romance and intimacy as a couple, contributing to that deep sense of belonging and acceptance, or even a sexless relationship. Now your connection is filled with disagreements, escalation and unfulfilled needs. Communication has broken down, and it looks as if the couple is spiralling out of control.

"Thank you so much for today.
You helped us turn a total crisis around in under 2hrs."

Laura C.


As you might imagine, not all couples counsellors use the same approach. Some focus on creating understanding and compromise, while others treat the relationship as two individuals who need a referee to tell them who's right and wrong or what's acceptable or unacceptable behaviour in a relationship.

My approach is to empower both partners. To explore deep-rooted healing of the factors that plague the couple. Without this fundamental shift in approach, solving the core issues in the relationship becomes impossible. Once these core issues are solved, finding ways to empower each partner is easy and rewarding, giving them the motivation and resources to focus on your needs.

Do you know what you want from your relationship partner? Are you ready to discover your best relationship yet - with your current partner? What if it requires some relationship work - and what if it is a worthwhile investment into your relationship (and ultimately yourself)?

Instead of couple therapy that ends up in complaining about each other, wouldn't you rather learn how to create a working relationship where both partners communicate openly and feel accepted and respected?  

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"After 10 years, my marriage is a sanctuary of peace for my heart, and I've never felt this level of intimacy with my wife - Thank you !!! Its better than I imagined when we got married!"

David (& Jenn) S.

When you come to work on your relationship with me, I keep you (both) focused on creating solutions that work in harmony with how you want your relationship to evolve. I focus you on what you ultimately want - and how to get there. Rather than waste your time being a referee in a competitive relationship, I bring you into a rewarding, mature and intimate relationship that empowers you with the skills and tools to co-create a lifetime of intimacy, fulfillment and growth. I provide a time-proven approach that brings people together and creates safe, loving, respectful partners with a new understanding of the other and the relationship. It helps you create a relationship where you can feel safe and validated; a place you can be yourself and be loved for who you are.

My goal is to create rapid, comprehensive change and keep you curious and motivated along the way. My mission is to empower you with the skills and tools to work on your own relationship well into the future; after you've completed your sessions. Typically, in about four months, we right the ship and confidently set a course for a relationship you want to be part of without needing to rely on further sessions over an extended time.

You learn the key parts that help you turn your relationship around in just a few sessions. Then we create a space where we can explore why you've been reacting the way you have and why you and your partner repeat the same behaviours, over and over. Together, we aim to create a space where you can discover who you are without being subject to your partner's judgment or correction; a space where you can feel accepted for who you are.

Do you want a relationship that lets you feel safe and nurtured while supporting your growth and providing a home for your heart? Rediscover intimacy and trust in the couple, the joy, emotional safety and acceptance that come from a healthy relationship.

My approach is different than typical couple counseling as we work together to create the marriage you want without spending too much time discussing who was wrong (in the past), settling arguments, etc.

Together, we discover the true differences in approach between the masculine and feminine in the marriage, discovering and meeting each other's needs, how to rekindle a loving sexual intimacy, communicating effectively, rediscovering trust, overcome hurt, etc.

Cost of Online Couples Counseling Sessions:
Your first online session is a FREE, no-obligation Assessment video call.
After your Assessment Call, we will be able to determine the EXACT cost and time to get your relationship where you want it to be.
Full discretion assured.
All Sessions are Private, and Virtual

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One Couple at a Time

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